According to the Guttmacher Institute , there are 43 million women in the US right now who are at risk of unwanted pregnancy, which means there are a whole lot of men out there who are similarly at risk. Of course, not everyone at risk is female nor does everyone subscribe to the gender binary. Condoms are perhaps the oldest form of birth control other than having a bad personality. According to some cave paintings in—where else? So unless you and your partner both feel fine with maybe having a kid, you should employ a secondary method of birth control.
Condoms get massive bonus points for preventing STDs, although there is some argument about how effective they are at doing that. Regardless, you must wear them every time you sleep with a new person. Simply asking if your boom boom partner has an STD is not enough; STDs can take months to show symptoms—if they do at all—and certain ones, like herpes, require a blood test.
Other than a vasectomy, this is really the only way for someone with a penis to prevent pregnancy, and it has no side effects at all! Ah, the pill. That is to say, one couple out of every using only birth control pills would get pregnant in a year. Imagine a window of your day where you will never have a conflict, free to dig around in your purse and swallow a pill.
This level of consistency is no small feat unless, like a weird goblin, you wake up exactly at am every morning and have never failed to do so. With most forms of the pill, missing even one dose makes the effectiveness drop drastically. Some medications, including certain antibiotics, and random things like activated charcoal which is occasionally added to foods and cocktails in a weird attempt to be trendy. Additionally, some studies show that hormonal birth control like the pill might be less effective for women over pounds. The last and maybe biggest downside of the pill, and the reason many women stop using it, is the long list of side effects including mood changes, weight gain, nausea, migraines, decreased libido which is such a gross word , and rarely more serious health problems like heart attack, liver tumors, stroke, and blood clots.
As a note, this is a description of combination pills which combine progesterone and estrogen; there are also progesterone only pills which are just as effective, but which have fewer side effects. They are often used by women who are nursing. The biggest draws of the IUD are its effectiveness and low maintenance-ness. As mentioned, there are two types of IUDs—hormonal and copper. Who knew? Other than doctors and scientists and stuff. Copper is so effective at killing sperm, in fact, that the copper IUD can be inserted up to 5 days after sex as emergency contraception.
Keep doing all of this and you should be fine. I hope this halps you and thanks for reading my opinion! Sometime we have a talk and giggle she has blond kind of hair and blue eyes like the sky. She knows my name because of the badge should i ask her it? Am I acting like a stupid pig. I think of her often every day I think it might be love. I talked to a male in work he laughed and told everyone.
I m fallen in love with a married woman of one son. We just talking to each other for the past 2 years. And always same answer she need time, some time it looks she just playing games with me , she is pecies n m libra male, she really nice , soft spoken, she one of nice person I have ever met in my life , she always says she love me or miss me , but not more then me , so plz help me wht to do , thx.
Recently i notices that she is seeying another man. Am confused i know she loves that guy but she does not want to let me go and accept just my friendship and the truth i can die for her but am ready to let her go as long as she will be happy where ever she goes. I havple told me that she is a flirt but i loved her inspite of what i get from people. I had a set of priorities for my wife to be and I found one in my part-time college. She is a girl in between traditional and modern society, she has a good career too.
From past 6 months I have been trying to get her into a chat or conversation not aggressively. I send her an inspirational text every other day or once in couple of days. But when i try to converse with her on text of phone call, she tries to cut it down. But when we meet in-person in college, she speaks fine and her body language is comfortable with me. Really this love is like a game. You love someone and you keep loving constantly,if one cheats you no mess up, or lacking self confidence. You just have to keep in touch with her. This is crazy men. Hello, So over the past two years I have known this girl to a lesser extent, but we have been in and actively participating many of the same clubs such as best buddies.
I have always thought of us as friends until about a month ago when we started talking more and more. I have one class with her, but we have many of the same teaches so sometimes we talk about school, sometimes best buddies, and sometimes just fun stuff. After every lesson in math I would normally go over to where she sits, or she would come to me, and we would spend time talking. We share many of the same morals, ethics, and interests and it seems that over the past month things have really hit off, or so I think.
I spent a couple times staying up till all hours to help her understand how to do things. The only thing is though that I spoke to a mutual friend a while ago probably when I first was really started to take interest in her and asked him about her and her relationship status. I know she is single, but about a month ago he said she was interested in someone else who is not her usual type he then mentioned that people like me are.
Basically, how can I tell if things do start to develop between the two of us, and if they are, what might be some signs, and how might I go about to take our friendship up one level? My girlfriend and I just broke up, although it is a long and confusing story. Too long to tell the whole thing here. We were great together, but there was another guy that she had feelings for before she met me that she never quite got over. That other guy was the only reason we broke up.
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Deciding between us was making her crazy. Now she has seen what he is really like a womanizer who only wants to sleep around which sent a shock to her already emotional state of mind. Now she just wants to be friends with me rather than trying again. I have no problem just being friends with her. I will live my life regardless. She needs to see how happy my life is, and then miss how happy she was with me. I am a student of delta state university.. Please, read the other articles that you think may be related to your problem s.
Best of luck to ya. Although, it does depend a lot on what the reason may be. Think of how much weight those reason s may matter to him, how much weight they carry in his opinion. A side note, to all those who seek advices on this very page aswell; No one can help everyone out there with their issues regarding their love life, especially since some of you only leave us with very brief notes on what your actual issue is centered around.
What should i do. Plz mail. I like this girl in my class. Shes quiet, 2 quiet. Everytime 2 make a conversetion with her i fail. I dont knw if she likes me but i would probably marry if given a chance. What should i do to make her like me and be comfortable enough 2 have a conversation with me? I have this problem, i am in love with this sweet girl, and she thinks i am sweet aswell, but i have one big problem. I have the feeling though she really likes me, but that other guy is just a major player, to whome she cannot resist.
Soo, I like this girl and she says she likes me.. Any ideas for me? Any would help!! Neos: Jealousy is bad and and it sometimes ruin the relationships. Giving yourself a fixed amount of time that u want to spend with her. Then, doing your own things, and somehow it is an attraction that you create to her. However, u can abuse jealousy to show your feelings to her….. I guess she will never tell me that she loves me. I love her too much what can i do!!!? Parth Tell her how you feel mate, tell her that you love her. She deserves to know.
All the best, your internet friend Oliver:. When i wake up, the first thing i think about is her, when i go to sleep.. Her eyes are the most beautiful things on Earth, her smile and her perfectly white teeth. I could sit and watch her for years of years and never grow tired. And i do love her. We are separated by many miles.. I just want to hold her in my arms and kiss her. I think love is for the weak minded. I think love is for the very young and the old. I love this woman and she loves me, but shes married…Shes my Mom!
Completely rid your mind of what you think is love based on this pop-culture world, then look inside of yourself to find the answer, trust me its there. Is it better if we just keep hiding our feeling or just tell her or him that we love them? We have one class together, when i look at her it feels like i recognise her from childhood.
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We could talk all day if we had the chance… i wish we did! Apparently a lot of people are finding this page looking for five things every girl does before she meets her boyfriend. I love a girl very much… we met each other by phone. Somehow I got her no n just had sent a message. She itself started messaging me as she told me that she likes to chat with me. Our friendship has become more stronger but now the main problem is that she already has a boyfriend.
Send her an sms instead? Now imagine that same girl laughing and having fun with her friends, but then she starts talking to you maybe together with her friends. You would be much more attracted to her right? I hope they help. I was on a cruise and i made lots of friends. Until i noticed girls hate me in my school yet they love me if they dont know me from school. S im kinda popular have plenty of confidence when hanging around them yet only a handful acknowledge me! Plz help. If you watch romance movies or read romance books you can probably pick up on some of the things girls fantasize about when finding the love of their life.
As said before, it may sound like just a fantasty but there is someone out there for you all, and if you try being with one girl and she only wants to be friends in the end, then thats the way it is I suppose. I know its not as easy as it sounds, trust me I know. Theres a chance and time frame that you have to impress her, and I guess with all these pages on this site it shouldnt be too tricky. If you guys really want to know what girls are swooning over why dont you read up things that women find attractive?
It applies onto teenage girls as well, read up some of the stuff and it will make you knowledgable on how to win over that girls heart. Hey btw, girls dont judge on looks that much. Honestly as long as you have a good personality and look half-decent its not a big deal. Besides if youre having troubles like acne, bad hair, weird clothes, fatness or things that make you feel insecure theres always ways to fix them. Invest in some acne cream, new shampoo, new wardrobe with clothes that suit your body, and spend some time at the gym to slim down and gain muscles!
Its possible, so theres no harm in starting. But good luck to all of you in making that girl fall for you. And dont forget to read those things that are found attractive, that list is spot on! I have one problem. Whenever I am with this girl that I haven fallen in love with her big time, I seem to have a problem of not really having stuff to talk about.
Actually the first time we had a conversation she told me outright that she usually is not the talkative one and getting conversations going with her is pretty difficult. The thing is I really really like her and want to get her to fall in love with me but how can I do that if we cannot even strike up a conversation? I believe that if we got to know each other a little better we would be able to get conversations going so I am in a dilemma. Should I risk telling her how I feel and maybe she may give me the chance. I am calling it a risk because I have a feeling it is too early to do so and she may freak out.
Any help on this will be very very appreciated. Every girl varies! My best advice is to simply get to know a girl first and learn the type of person she is, what she is all about, and what she likes… Because you have girls that are either very intellectual and down to earth,.. There seems to be a lot of anger and despair from many of you guys. It is definitely a dog-eat-dog love world. Be confident in what you have, and what you have to offer.
If you are able to find the proper balance you can make her happy forever. All of your previous relationships with women you loved only serves the greater purpose; to find the one you are compatible with who you can make happy forever. Good luck gentlemen. When I was 17, a girl told me that noone will ever love you. When I was 21, I was told that I need to stop trying. They only love themselves, and what the man has. Love is a chemical reaction in the brain. The trick is to suppress it. I always get really attached.. Now im in a big depression, im very sad… i want her at least to talk me and then in a sooner future make her the happiest girl in the world..
Seriously, everything Normalgirl has said is correct. Just be yourself, and to guys that are waiting for a girl that only wants sex, or random kisses, or stuff like that and she has another guy,, GIVE UP. Why would you want a girl that cheats anyway?? If shes cheating on a boy now by doing stuff with youu, she WILL cheat on you later with another guy if you two ever get together. You are a good enough person to deserve a girl that loves you for YOU. Not for kisses, etc. If a girl calls you her best friend and loves to talk to you, hang out with you, etc, she probably has a little bit of feelings for you at least.
Your job is to not be crazy about it. Like dont ask her out, over and ever again. Just be the best person you can be. Youre just her pet and you let yourself be her pet, so why should she give you anything in return? She wont. No matter how hard it is, no matter how much you might want to, no matter how much you think shell start liking you if you do those things, SAY NO. Shell start to realize, hopefully, that you are a human being with feelings too, and stop treating you like her puppet.
When you start to respect yourself girls will too. You could tell her that for you in the beginning it was also just as friends, but that you started to like her give the little reasons why and that you would like to see where it leads. It sounds like you made the right choice though. At the moment she is the one ignoring me and that makes it hard to ignore her back; maybe she doesnt deserve me if she treats me like this, but at the moment she is the only girl i could imagine ever being with.
Well, Julian I guess you need to have a start as a friend again. I think she felt insecure the way your relation was going. Rather than face the fact she may have tried to down play it. You should try having sort of contact with her again before asking her out, as a friend. This might give her the time to analyse you again. Start texting her.
If no response you can ask what happened. You deserve an answer when you are sincere. But if there is no response even after texts, Stop them as she might feel you are stalking her. You can start with something else then. All the best mate… take care. So next week i told her i needed to tell her something in person and she kept asking wat was it, then i asked if she wanted to go to the movies again. Idk what i did, and sometimes after that i notice that she had eye contact and when i looked the turned her head!!
My love just left me, she says she want something new.. And bout ur situation, i think ou should just back off her slightly. Does she still tell you her feelings for you? If so then she is playing you. But if you really love her man, then wait for her :!!! HI, I fallen in love with one girl. She will look me and smile at me.
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Srry, as an extra on my first post… this girl way too often totally ignores me when i say hi orso on msn. Thats actually the main thing that pisses me off. Is this just her playing games with me? Or is it because she feels im putting too much pressure on her? Anyway, we shared a bed brother and sister in the room, nothing happened and that was alot of fun. Then, since I had never kissed a girl, she offered to kiss me next time we go on holiday together she offered via msn.
We stayed in contact through msn, and now… a lot later she tells me she had a crush on me last summer. But the problem is.. On the brightside she has had a fight with her boyfriend not so long ago, and threatened to break it up with him. Even if she does she will still go on holiday with him.
WTF am I supposed to do? I am insanely inlove with a girl my parents are good friends with her parents shes two years younger than me but theres a rather large problem i live in england and she lives in australia i sometimes talk to her on facebook but i dont think she feels as i do does anybody have any advice. There is this girl who IVe recently began to like. She was a very good friend before and I always talked about my Ex girlfriend with her which sometimes made me look pathetic talking about that but she really helped me.
I took her to my Prom party and we had this moment and a really good time but nothing happened like a kiss. Now I like her but I really dont have anything to say to her, I just love spending time with her and I know I can make her happy, I just need to make her like me first if its possible. Any advice, Taylor. What can I do? Please respond. We talked every day. I loved her sooo much. I still think about her every day and night.. We even liked each other for a while but that went away. My best friends told me she still likes me, after all this time.
Because I still love my ex and it would be so unfair to be with someone while loving someone else.. Sometimes I get jealous because she talks about other guys.. So what I want to know is.. Or my best friend who has liked me for a good couple of years now and has waited for me even though she could date any guy she wanted.. But if anyone could give me any advice at all.. Then please go ahead. I am a average guy at school, who loves this girl. She is kind and pretty, girls say i m attractive but dont know how to use it,such as talking to a girl who you like.
Well i met a girl, and she has given me a chance to get to know her. I am lost and confused of what to do or how to even do it. Namad i kinda fell the same as you i like her a lot burt she doesnt like me and i try to talk to her but my mind falls blank except for her! If a girl says that she wants to be with you but will not say that she loves you, she actually does.
Most girls have low self-esteem and they try to get guys to notice them more than we guys do. That girl is too shy around you to say she loves you, but the reason why she wont tell you she loves u is because she actually does. She just thinks you are kind and stuff, and has another BF. A girl will not say she loves you until you say so yourself. And you have to look confident otherwise the girl will not be confident to put her in your hands. Also, try to hold her hand and hug her once in a while. Not too much, cuz then they will think u r a creeper, the worst comment a girl could make about a guy.
Just tell her that you love her and hug her. Be very kind to her. Make some jokes, and no sex jokes. Those turn girls off. I know what I am talking about. Oh yeah. Gel your hair. Girls like big ass hair thats wild and standing up. I like this girl very much. I like her very much and wish I knew that she does. Guys, just have be true to your heart, true to yourself dont change who you are , and be straightforward and confident. Thats all it takes. And lets face it, looks do count, but there not everything, your attitude, personality, career, the way you hold yourself holds equal value too.
Looks are the initial point, and while if u have it, it helps alot, u can balance out your other qualities. But really, just do some basic grooming, be clean, confident, and be true to yourself. And if you like someone, just tell them so dont go over-board , but ask them out, and spend time with them. Okay, you guys are trying to hard. If you have acne and zits: Buy some Proactive or Clean and Clear or something.
Do some research, maybee go to college? If she likes the type of guy that is the foot ball butt slapper type: Lift some boxes, join the gym, and join some sports. Find out what she likes. And to be honest, this is rare, but there is some girls that like nerds. These types of girls usually like a challenge… Even if the guy looks like a foot. I hope my advice has helped you. I am new to this forum.
I just found it and the messages look interesting. A lot of women say the want a nice guy, but they look for the bad guy. The nice guy is always some schmuck she uses to cry on his shoulder when the bad guy she is with is…, well…, bad to her. What did these women think was going to happen with a bad guy. They always want to get the bad guy, and then try to change him. Women always like trying to change whatever man they are with, even when they say they love him the way he is. Men pretty much look for women they think they will be compatible with if they are looking for a long term relationship.
Now here is the kicker. There is something to be said for being committed to someone, but staying with someone who always makes you miserable is taking it to the extreme. For instance, if men see another man being a jerk, then most men know that the guy is a… wel… a jerk.
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Instead, she sees Mr. Go figure! On the flip side, if a man encounters another man who is polite and helpful, then the that man usually sees someone that he would call a pretty cool dude. Here again, a woman sees something totally different. Instead, they mistake nice for weakness. Again, go figure. A real good example of what I am talking about is this: Did you know that a lot of the male prison poplation have no trouble getting one or more women wanting them. Here again, a man will see such men for who they are. No, what they will see is a knight in shining armor. You never hear of men trying to hook up with female convicted felons.
Not by a long shot. These are the kind of women I seem to always encounter. Or are there just not many of these women around? We were in school. She knows I like her and she avoids me now. Now I am left with everything average in my life… nothing special. There seems just no way to get her. It seems impossible that a girl would accept a boy whom she had once rejected. Can anyone please suggest something?? Is there any chance?
I think anyone who tries too hard is doing something wrong. Truthfully, if something is going to happen, then just let it happen. I met this girl on the internet and we talked for a few days and then we started dating over the internet.
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We liked each other a lot we called each other a lot almost everyday. But she told me its not my fault. I just want to know what I can say or do to maybe get this relationship back on track, because things were amazing and we were both constantly happy. I truly miss her. First off. Take a step back, and re-read the header on this page. Be yourself. Find out if they really are a person you would like to be around a lot. Look fellaz. I met an amazing woman last year. She took me home and we started seeing eachother not long after that. She used to say she was madly in love with me, she would practise writing her new initials and signature for when we get married.
When I was in rehab she visited everyday, but when I got out I gave her the flick, then recalled her into my life. Our turbulent relations lasted a year and then we parted amicably. She has had a short relationship since with someone violent. Am I just a booty call? I think I love her this time and yes I know her favorite colour, movie, songs, reactions, sense of humour and yes I think about her romantically. Fellow peers who like you have come to this site looking for help. Cuz the author isnt going to read all of these and help every one of you. Presumably the majority of you are men.
Well then be manly. If she said no, keep in contact but stop hoping and wishing for a magical formula to make it work. Here the thing that I had. So what we have to explain my and her parents if the time that we want to marry with each other arrive? Wait for help by ideas. Cause I have no any idea about it at all. What do I do?
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Feel free to include how stupid I am for asking this question, thanks. I am a loser essentially. I have a girlfriend as well but i am not showing much towards her sadly and we barely talk. Please help meh. Well theres this girl ive known for three years. We are good friends, and i just got msn about a week ago and every second day we have stayed up from 10 to 4 am talking and I make her laugh alot. I love talking to her. And I miss her alot.. I love her obviously. And she doesnt know. I dont know what I should do, is there any ways I can impress her or make her feel special?
Or how do I tell her? I thank you so much. I really hopes this works. John, that was really up lifting and going to try tomarrow to start being nice and judging my self. Thanks for all the help, and p. She is sooooo hot! First of all I want to say that your girl or your friend is very lucky, the way you described her was really amazing; it touches me deeply.
I m sorry you love her ok!!!!!!!!!!! But tell her everything trust me! First of all, I find it a little sad that you have to come to this website for your love life,but I also find it sweet. You want someone to fall in love with who YOU are. Otherwise you will have to put on an act eveyday which is very difficult, trust me.
You have to do what you feel is right. Also, become friends with them. Hugging is a good thig because, not only does it make a girl feel secure, it makes them feel wante. This is VERY good. And, every girl needs a good listener. Ok I like this girl a lot but she has a boyfriend that she has been going out with for like 2 and a half years.
We are both good friends and have the same interests. Do you think she likes me at all? We both are freshman in a fairly small highschool in texas. However, it is hard seeing a girl I really like hold hands and hug another guy. Hi I am in love with a girl down the street from me.
She is one year younger then me. So one day I asked her if she would be my girlfriend. She said no and ran away from me. When she ran home I think she told her parents because they used to like me but now they hate me. How do I fix it? This is a girl speaking. And again,if you like a girl, just tell her, its that simple, maybe she likes you too and is just waiting for you to make a move. Stop crying and move on if the girl you love has a bf. Now if shes having a difficult time deciding, then id say you have some wiggle room.
Ladies would you agree? Should I? I have no idea but I really like her. Theres a girl out there for ya, you just gotta find her. My Girl friend left me about 2 months ago and I cant believe how stupid I was for letting her go… It went wrong to start with because I put too much pressure on her asking demanding questions.
I never really gave her enough time to fall deeply in love with me and after I asked the wrong question she ended it… I miss her so much and cant believe how dumb i was, I have searched the internet for answers and ways to get her back. I spent hours think about her in the past and now she has gone all the energy has turned to making myself into her perfect guy, working out, improving charisma and trying to become better. I need help I dont know how I can approach her anymore, we are still in touch but only as friends and I cant seem to compliment or flirt with her without her seeing it as me hitting on her, it feels like a dead end.
In most the internet advice I have seen it suggests not trying to win them back and just going with the follow and only trying to influence them back into falling in love with you. I need some help with how exactly i can influence her and make her see how much i love her. I asked a girl out. She said we would try it out for a week or two. I told her that then asked her out. We text all the time. How do I make her stay with me?
Were in grade school. Please help…!!! I am in love with a girl, a girl that I loved for years and years. We are kind of a friend before but not anymore after I have said I am in deep love with her,and she is just keep on ignoring me. I like this girl but she likes someone else and it bothers me because i dont feel very ugly and i just have more few freckles i try to make her laugh but she never pays attention. We know each other for 2 years. We did our studies in the same college. I have completed the course and now I am working in an organization. We are very close to each other.
I can feel her sadness, pain, happiness and all and I will share everything to her. I am very friendly and sincere to her. She says that she loves me so much. She can understand me well. She loves me since I became her friend. I understood that thing on the day we separated. Now i am far away from her. I want to be with her. I want to marry her. I am waiting for the day to see her…I miss you a lot my girl…. I know! No matter what she is in all if my dreams. I fell completely in love with a girl in one of my classe.
I will always be here for you. Hi Tareq. Even my friend has the same problem. My advice is just OPEN yourself to her. When she is knows your point of view in you should stand bold buddy. Express yourself and take care! Everything u wrote is everything we already know. Ultimately what u say in all articles is for a guy to love himself and value himself first and the rest should fall in place on its own. She wants to breakup the relation. I understand that she wants to fulfill her dream and I too, I gave her time also but she said no.
Her answer is negative for this. At first, i think you should know who you are: Know yourself! Love yourself, at first! We hate it! Secound: be real. Make it often, but on a day, tell her all your feelings. But you have to try, even it being hard. Thirty: Give her flowers in commun days. Hug her, make she feels like she was a queen. Because I love you, understand it? Is it clear? This is essential. Think about you.
Look at mirror and try to see out of your image. Try to see you heart. Ive been working with this girl for about 2years now, I really liked her, and even asked her out, then i found out she had a boyfriend. Though then we started talking and she started calling me, then i would call her, and when we talked, she would hardly ever mention her boyfriend. I keep telling myself i dont need her, yet i keep having thoughts and dreams about her. So please help me. Most girls wants them to rich and remaing want the looks.
So there is never be a single girl who loves a boy for his heart….. We knew each other for 1 to 2 years. I have completed the course and now I am working in a company. I can feel her sadness, pain, happiness and all. She says that she loves me than I love her. She can understand what it truly means to love someone.
She began to love me after we talked a lot. Now i am kms away from her. One more thing: There seem to be a lot of guys on here who like girls already in relationships. Lastly, consider some possibilities with me. Think of some genuinely decent and desirable girls who are married. Now consider that those girls probably had more than 1 boyfriend besides the boyfriends they each married. Similarly, guys are capable of feeling love for more than one girl over their lifetime.
I hope this goes a long way to help guys begin to release their neediness. It was very crazy for me. My 8 yr old just about hated her but he was influenced by his mother. We ended up breaking up after living together for about a year. It broke her Heart. She would still come to my house and sleep over times a week. This went on for over 2 months. Then just the other day I found my self missing her really bad.
The next day I decided she was the best thing that ever happened to me and I instantly was in love with her. I wanted her back and i wanted to give her my whole heart. She then went on to tell me that She came to say goodbye because she met someone earlier in the week and was just about in love with him. On the 6 day she wants to see him again. She also says she wants to do the same with him be friends until she can come to terms about me now falling in love with her.
Is it possible to get her back? Thank You. I need help. I like this girl from school, Shes perfect. What does that mean?? But i do like this girl a lot i just get nervous to start a conversation an that i might get rejected…. But she has a boyfriend who is the star football player. What do I do?!?! Hi dear. Could you help me please? Please give me some advivces, Best regards. I liked this girl for 2 years and she seems to look at me sometimes during class. She sometimes looks at my hand and my feet.
Everytime she laughs at a joke our teacher tells she looks at me. If not then what signs am I suppose to look for? When i first started to love her i had chances and she was in love with me too. Please help I need advice on how i can build my self-esteem. So all of that make me to think about her all the time day and night and i started to feel different in my way of thinking about life and future and to asked my self one day is this really love who make me to feel like this? So I advise all the guys to wait and be patient everyone of us have his partner so it depend of the time of seen her.
Love is complicated. I really like my best friend. She likes me. She has a boyfriend. Just a tool. Pretty messed up. Before anyone can say about treating her right, making her feel good etc. Her BF also likes my, cause i play the guitar, and he wants me to play guitar with her, cause she plays too, and he thinks she is excellent.
I love her much more than as a friend.
My love for this girl has reached an uncontrolable point, to where she utterly controls my thoughts. She does not flirt or talk about relationships with me at all, yet i make her happy and sometimes laugh when i speak to her. We have a lot in common, and recently i found out that her mum knew my mum 15 years ago. This sparked a strange feeling i think we both shared, which brought us together as friends. I now think of her as a female version of me, except much more confident and popular. I love her so much, she is so talented and clever, and so massively beautiful, although some of my mates call her ugly, perhaps out of jelousy towards her boyfriend.
I want more that friendship, i value her more than anything else in my life, and this has been building for a long time. I want to spend my life with this right girl. I need to appeal to her thoughts! Help me, i shout to the world!! Every girl i meet wants to be my best friend. Dont make her love you. What if she dont wanna be loved? I didnt, but he didnt care and made me fall for him. He broke my heart, just stop and think about it, some girls dont wanna be loved.
Love is so beautiful and painful at the same time. I think the key is to love without attachment. Love yourself more than the other person because the most important relationship you will have in life is with yourself. Love other people abundantly but without expectations. Do what is best for you and try to improve yourself for your own sake because you love yourself, not for anyone else. Love without possessiveness. Maybe you will never have these ladies, but you can still love them in a corner of your heart.
Loving yourself is the main point, giving love is important, recieving love from yourself is essential, recieving love from others is not important. But are you guys officially dating? If you are dating, then you should ask her what is wrong with her brain. Invite girls over to your place, treat them in her own favorite ways, make her jealous.
So I think the best thing to do is discuss your relationship between the two of you. Keep me posted! And good luck!! I have been in love with this girl for 7 years. In that time I was in a 5 year relationship with another girl and was engaged to be married. I thought about this other girl almost all the time, so much so that it eventually broke apart my relationship. I know that she cares for me a lot…like a brother. They do nothing for me. Like a complete moron I am, I made these feelings stronger. She comes back from across the country after 3 years and specifically wants to move in with me.
I was in a dream land. All our friends call us married. We argue about insignificant things.